One principle.
For every life stage.
Talk first, meet later — anonymously through the app, without exchanging phone numbers. That applies to everyone, whatever your age or situation. The pages below show what that means concretely for each — as a starting point, not a restriction: talkbeforedate is for everyone.
By age
Under 30
A real conversation first, then the date — instead of endless swiping.
30 and over
More intentional dating instead of endless swiping.
40 and over
Clear intentions instead of endless chat small talk.
50 and over
A new chapter, safe and uncomplicated.
Over 60
A voice first, a face later — without exchanging phone numbers.
By life situation
For students
Verified in one minute with your university email.
For busy professionals
Little time, real conversations instead of endless chatting.
New to the city
Safely meet new people, even without an existing network.
For single parents
Little time, high safety before the first date.
After a breakup
Find your way back at your own pace — no pressure.