New city.
Familiar safety.
In a new city, nobody knows the person you're meeting — no circle of friends to vouch for them or warn you beforehand. talkbeforedate replaces that missing social network with anonymous calls before the date and a shared meeting plan, so you can still meet new people safely.
What makes a fresh start hard
No social network to check in with
Nobody knows the person you're meeting — no mutual friends to act as a safety net.
New city and new people at once
Double uncertainty — you know neither the area nor the people.
Isolated again quickly
Without actively doing something about it, you're quickly alone again in the new city.
talkbeforedate — your safety net for a fresh start.
A call instead of reassurance from friends.
An anonymous call before the first meeting replaces the missing reassurance you'd normally get from mutual friends.
A meeting plan for anyone you trust.
Place, time and "safely back by" — shareable with anyone you trust, for example a new colleague.
City profiles show who's active.
City profiles (e.g. Munich, Berlin, Hamburg) show who's active in your new city.
Real profiles, not dead accounts.
Verification ensures real profiles instead of dead accounts from a city you don't know yet.
"In a new city, you're missing the trusted person who thinks along in the background. We take care of that."
— The principle behind talkbeforedate
Become a founding member
Sign up while your city is still on the waitlist — and keep your permanent early-adopter badge as one of the first in your city.
Find your cityFrequently asked questions
How do I know if talkbeforedate is already active in my new city?+
talkbeforedate launches city by city. You can check or join the waitlist for your own city for free.
Can I see who's active in my new city?+
Profiles can be filtered by location, so you can specifically meet people from your new city.
Who can I share my meeting plan with if I don't know anyone in the city yet?+
The link can be shared with anyone you trust, for example a new colleague, a flatmate, or family and friends from your old city.
Is it safe to meet someone I've only known for a short time?+
The anonymous call beforehand plus the shared meeting plan with "safely back by" create extra safety, especially when there's no existing social network to check in with.
New city, new people — safely.
Register for free and meet the first people in your new city.
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