The kids are asleep.
Time to get to know someone.
As a single parent, time for dating is scarce and precious. You don't want to spend that little time on unsafe or unclear contacts. talkbeforedate brings quick clarity with a short anonymous call — without giving out your number right away or arranging hours-long dates.
What makes dating with kids hard
Barely any free time
Evenings are scarce. Every minute spent on a mismatched contact is wasted time.
Safety is the top priority
Before strangers get your number or address, trust needs to be there — especially with a child at home.
Dates take a lot of effort
Organising a babysitter for a date that turns out to be a mismatch is especially frustrating.
talkbeforedate — safety that fits your everyday life.
One call, once the kids are asleep.
A short anonymous call in the evening quickly shows whether it's worth continuing.
Your number stays private.
It stays protected until you decide yourself to share it.
Plannable for the babysitter.
A meeting plan with place, time and "safely back by" — practical when a babysitter is waiting at home.
Trust before your scarce time.
Verification builds trust before you invest your scarce time in a real date.
"As a parent, you have no time for detours. One conversation shows faster whether it fits than three dates."
— The principle behind talkbeforedate
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Find your cityFrequently asked questions
How much time do I realistically need for a first getting-to-know-you?+
An anonymous call often takes just a few minutes and fits into an evening, without any complicated date logistics.
Will my child or people around me find out about my activity on talkbeforedate?+
No, your profile and your activity are private, and your number is never shared automatically.
What if I have to cancel a babysitter at short notice and need to postpone a date?+
As long as no number has been exchanged yet, this can be sorted out easily directly in the app.
How safe is a first real meeting if I have little time to get to know someone beforehand?+
The meeting plan with place, time and "safely back by" gives extra peace of mind, even when there's little lead time.
Less effort. More clarity.
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